How To Make Sure A Windfall Lasts

How To Make Sure A Windfall Lasts

Moneywise    Sun, March 8, 2026

‘We are super screwed’: This couple spent a $171K inheritance in less than a year.

Inheriting a windfall may seem like a dream come true, but it can cause tremendous anxiety and guilt, and it can even leave you financially worse off.

For instance, Mike and Noel, both 34 and recently married, burned through a $171,000 inheritance in about a year. You can imagine how that left them feeling.

“We are super screwed,” Noel told Ramit Sethi on an episode of his podcast, I Will Teach You To Be Rich (1).

And it’s not like they are in dire circumstances. Mike earns a six-figure salary and is supporting Noel while she finishes law school — but they have always struggled with debt and money management, even before the inheritance.

While they used some of the inheritance to pay off debt, they quickly accumulated more: Noel spent $30,000 on furniture, $10,000 on clothes and $10,000 on a trip to Mexico. Mike purchased a hair transplant and Pokémon cards, which he considered an “investment.”

Now, they have $30,000 in assets, another $30,000 in investments and zero savings after spending the inheritance, but they are also $244,000 in debt, leaving them with a negative net worth of roughly -$200,000.

Because of it, Noel said she regrets treating the money like “guilt-free spending,” while Mike said he feels anxious and stressed, leading to tension and fights over finances.

While there are a lot of issues to unpack here — from Mike’s anxiety around money to Noel’s addiction issues — their situation demonstrates how quickly a windfall can disappear without clear priorities, budgeting and an investment plan. It also underscores the risks of lifestyle creep and impulsive spending.

If you’re in line for a significant financial windfall, here are some tips to make that inheritance last.

The Great Wealth Transfer

Even if you aren’t in line for multigenerational wealth, large inheritances might become more common than you think.

Through 2048, Gen X and millennials are projected to inherit $124 trillion in assets — what’s referred to as America’s Great Wealth Transfer — with Gen X expected to receive the largest share of assets over the next decade, according to the latest Cerulli Associates report (2).

However, the problem is that some heirs treat inheritances like regular income rather than long-term capital.

Part of the reason could be psychological. Noel, for example, inherited the money from her dad, with whom she had a difficult relationship. “He was an alcoholic and addict and was really not in my life, and so I had a lot of guilt [about inheriting his assets],” she told Sethi.

And she’s not alone. A Harris Poll report found that inheritances come with complex emotions: A third (33%) of younger recipients feel stress managing larger or more complex assets, and a similar share (34%) worry about mismanaging those assets (3).

According to the same report, while most inheritors feel grateful and relieved by newfound financial security, 20% feel pressure, 18% feel anxiety and 15% feel guilt.

This phenomenon is sometimes called Sudden Wealth Syndrome, a psychological condition affecting people who suddenly acquire wealth — through an inheritance, lottery, legal settlement or other windfall. Causes can include feeling disconnected from one’s previous life or an intense fear of losing it all.

These feelings can lead to decision paralysis or poor financial choices.

Making the most of an inheritance

In short, inheriting a windfall can be overwhelming. While a large inheritance can help you pay off debt and invest for the future, it can also be very tempting to go on a spending spree.

Friends and family might also offer unsolicited advice — regardless of whether you ask for it.

That’s why having a plan in place — one tailored to your specific circumstances — can go a long way in helping you make your inheritance last. Without one, even a six-figure windfall can quickly evaporate.

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