Why So Few People Feel Secure About Money — Even When They Have Lots of It

And why the neighbors of lottery winners are often worse off.

Sean Kernan  June 21, 2024·

I’m not rich by any means. But I’ve done well enough to be comfortable, mostly because I saved aggressively early in my career. Yet I still feel like I’m only a stone’s throw from being in poverty, which is slightly irrational.

I remember having no money and having to budget until my next paycheck or risk groveling to my parents for help. It wasn’t a good life. And it still feels like yesterday, even though so many years have passed. Sadly, many people feel this way.

And to some extent — this stress can be constructive. It can mitigate risky spending. You’ll certainly never catch me with problematic expensive hobbies. But I wish I could feel more at ease about my station in life. Many of my friends are in this same psychological boat too. My buddy Brian is a software engineer, who has been making north of $180K per year — for years on end — while living in a low-cost area, and he’s still as cheap as he’s ever been.

So why are we like this? How do we level up and counteract this financial anxiety?

Are You Rich? Here's What Americans Think You Need To Be Considered Wealthy

Jeannine Mancini   Tue, Jul 2, 2024,

Bill Gates Was The 'World's Richest Man' For A Record 18 Years. His Secret To Success? 'Saving Like A Pessimist, Investing Like An Optimist'

Bill Gates, co-founder of Microsoft and one of the most influential figures in the tech industry, is renowned for his business acumen and unique approach to financial management. After dropping out of college at 19, Gates cofounded Microsoft with Paul Allen, transforming it from a small startup into a global tech giant.

In the United States, the concept of being rich is often a subject of discussion, curiosity and, sometimes, aspiration. Charles Schwab's 2023 Modern Wealth Survey provides insights into this topic, revealing that the average American equates being wealthy with a net worth of approximately $2.2 million.

5 Biggest Money Mistakes When Retiring in the Midwest

Gina Hagler  Mon, July 1, 2024

Retiring with little to no savings is a situation that even Americans who made the effort to save can find themselves in. Creating a nest egg is the important first step, but there are a number of ways that you can end up poorly managing it — before and after retiring.

Some of the universal mistakes include taking on too much risk or withdrawing too much, too soon. While the Midwest is attractive to retirees for its relative affordability, retiring still requires careful planning.

If you’re retiring in the Midwest, these are the biggest areas of concern through which you could slip up, according to Johnson Wealth and Income Management.

I Grew Up Rich: 6 Money Lessons I Learned After I Lost It All

G. Brian Davis  Sat, June 29, 2024

An oft-cited statistic states that 70% of wealthy families lose their riches by the second generation, and 90% lose them by the third.

Why? Because the first generation earns it, the second generation spends it and the third finds itself back at square one.

It turns out that earning money and shepherding money long term require two different skill sets. All too often, no one in any of those three generations learns how to protect and grow wealth long term.

“I grew up in a wealthy family where my grandfather was the chairman of the largest textile processing mill in our city,” explained Muhammad Ali, sales director at George Digital. “Our business, established in the 1950s, was a significant player in the industry from 1970 to 2001 … However, our fortunes drastically changed, and by 2012, my father’s income dwindled to just $300 a month.

6 Ways To Build Wealth After Getting Laid Off — That Don’t Include a New Job

Vance Cariaga   Thu, Jun 27, 2024

Layoffs are a fact of life in the modern economy — even when the economy is growing and unemployment is low, like now. The list of companies that have announced layoffs this year alone reads like a “who’s who” of corporate titans and includes Amazon, Walmart, Microsoft, Alphabet (Google), Tesla, Bristol Myers Squibb, Nike and Disney.

The disconcerting thing for workers is that employers sometimes announce layoffs even when they’re doing well financially. In some cases, businesses announce layoffs to make up for past hiring sprees. In other cases, they simply replace workers with AI or other technologies.

Given the size and frequency of layoffs these days, it’s understandable that some folks who have been given the pink slip have decided to stop looking for jobs altogether. If you fall into that category, here are six ways to build wealth that don’t include getting another full-time job.

25 Things You Should Never Do With Your Money

Roger Wohlner  Sat, June 29, 2024

Do enough digging and you’ll find that there is possibly an endless list of things you shouldn’t do with your money. From bad habits to decisions based on wishful thinking, some of the bigger missteps can really cost you.

To find out the biggest money mistakes you should avoid, GOBankingRates asked financial experts for their best advice.

Never Cash Your Paycheck Right Away

If you cash your paycheck right away, you might burn through it too quickly.

“You will most certainly spend it all if you cash your paycheck rather than have your employer directly deposit it into your bank account,” said Barbara Friedberg, a personal finance consultant. “Even better is to automatically transfer a percent of your paycheck into a retirement investment account and direct-deposit the remainder into a bank account.”

One advantage of having a workplace retirement plan, such as a 401(k), is that money is automatically deducted from your pay and invested. You don’t see it, so you won’t spend it. You can use a budgeting template to get the most mileage out of your paycheck.

Never Fall For ‘Special’ Finance Deals You Can’t Afford

I Grew Up Rich: 6 Money Lessons I Wish My Parents Would Have Taught Me

Cindy Lamothe   Fri, June 28, 2024

There’s no doubt that being born with a silver spoon in your mouth gives you a leg up in the world — but it can also have its downsides, financially speaking.

Growing up rich has many perks, but it can also hinder a person from learning essential money lessons.

GOBankingRates spoke with people who come from privilege but recognize their upbringing didn’t equip them with the necessary financial skills to set them up for long-term success. Read below for their insights on money lessons they wish they had learned.

Appreciating the Value of Money

“Having grown up in a wealthy family and now working for my own business, I have unique insights into the financial lessons often missed when money is readily available,” said Ben Hilton, founder and managing director of Switch Jam Digital.

How To Achieve Financial Freedom: 9 Steps Towards Financial Independence

Sheiresa McRae Ngo   Thu, June 27, 2024   Bankrate

If you’re like many people, you dream about reaching a point where you don’t have to worry about money, and you can quit your 9-to-5. According to Bankrate’s recent Financial Success Survey, 41 percent of Americans would consider themselves financially successful when they never worry about their finances.

Most Americans say they wouldn’t feel secure until they’ve made at least $233,000 a year, according to Bankrate’s Financial Freedom Survey. To feel rich and financially free, Americans said they would need to earn an average of $483,000 a year.

Fortunately, it’s possible to achieve financial freedom. With careful planning, disciplined savings and wise investments, you can reach your goal. Here’s how you can become financially independent.

100 Ways To Live a Rich Life in Retirement — Without Spending All of Your Savings

Preston Hartwick   Tue, June 25, 2024 

You may have more free time when you retire, but retirement certainly isn’t free.

Around half of retirees report that their overall spending is higher than they anticipated, according to the Employee Benefit Research Institute. At the same time, the top concern of retirees is that the increased cost of living is making it harder to save money.

Ideally, you’ll have started preparing for retirement well before you hit the magic number. But even if you haven’t saved as much money as you would have liked, there are a multitude of ways to make your savings last.

While you may not be able to eat out at fancy restaurants every night or take big vacations every year, you can still live a rich, fulfilling life on a modest budget. Being smart with your money and taking advantage of free activities and experiences are keys to maintaining a satisfying lifestyle and healthy bank account balance.

7 Things You Must Do When You Start Making 6 Figures

Heather Taylor   Wed, June 26, 2024

Once your salary reaches $100,000, you need to take certain steps to ensure you keep building wealth and stay in good financial health.

There’s a chance you already might be making some of these money moves, even if you’re earning a little less. Make sure you start taking these actions as soon as you begin earning $100,000.

7 Things You Should Never Do in Retirement

Adam Palasciano   Tue, June 25, 2024

Retirement: A magical time of life when you no longer (necessarily) have to work for your money. Instead, decades of hard work coupled with saving and smart investments should mean that your money now works for you.

Careful financial planning can certainly lead you to this outcome. However, there are several things you’ll want to street clear of to ensure that you don’t end up in financial trouble after you call it quits at work.

Here are seven things you’ll want to seriously avoid if you’re approaching retirement or you’re already retired, according to Ameriprise and Think Bank.

Ex-Millionaires Are Revealing How They Lost All Their Money, And I'm Actually Speechless

BuzzFeed   Tue, June 25, 2024

Reaching millionaire status is a feat people dream of achieving. But unfortunately, having millions of dollars doesn't mean you're invincible, as evidenced by redditor u/HypnoticMushrooms, who asked people to share how they or someone they knew became an "ex-millionaire." I'm genuinely surprised at how some of these people weren't responsible with their money. Here are some of the most insightful stories:

1."COVID-19. I built a business that was given a valuation of a few million back in January, but the industry went down, and I'm doing all I can now to avoid bankruptcy."