3 Ways To Avoid Being Exploited As You Get Older
3 Ways To Avoid Being Exploited As You Get Older
‘They left us with nothing’: This elderly couple was evicted from their home of 20 years — after their son transferred ownership. 3 ways to avoid being exploited as you get older
Serah Louis Sun, September 24, 2023
An elderly California couple was devastated when they were served an eviction notice in April for the home they’d been making regular payments on for two decades.
Ismael and Angelita Ramirez purchased their home back in 2003 with their son, who told them they didn’t need to include their name on the title.
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"He told us they told him it wasn't necessary. And well, since we don't know English, that's where they lied to us," Ishmael told FOX26 News.
The eviction notice reportedly stated that the owner of the home was selling the property and the couple said they later learned their son had transferred the home to a woman who sent them the notice. Although the couple tried to get legal help, there wasn’t much the lawyer could do since the house wasn’t in their name.
“We thought, why did our boy do that to us if he knew the house was ours?" Ishmael said.
Elder financial abuse impacts millions of Americans
The Ramirezes were victims of elder abuse — which is far more common than you’d think.
In fact, the National Council on Aging reports up to five million older Americans are affected each year, while victims of financial abuse are estimated to lose at least $36.5 billion a year.
And in almost 60% of cases, the perpetrator is a family member — often the adult child or spouse of the victim.
The Ramirezes told FOX26 they’ve since been displaced and their Social Security income isn’t enough to buy a new home or even afford rent.
"They left us with nothing," Ismael said.
Their other son, Ismael Jr., created a GoFundMe fundraiser, which has already received more than 1,600 donations to help the couple.
Here are five ways to avoid being exploited as you get older, or to protect your aging parents from predators.
1. Appoint a power of attorney
A power of attorney (POA) allows an individual to act on your behalf in legal or business matters — and you can appoint this person while you’re in control of your mental faculties.
Appointing a financial POA allows someone to manage your financial affairs, like signing and mailing checks, filing tax returns and managing investments on your behalf. They can have specific and limited powers, or more broad capabilities.
But most importantly, be careful who you select to safeguard your finances, as the Ramirezes learned firsthand. You should only appoint someone you really trust — but you can tell your (trusted) friends and family about your POA so they can look out for you. You could also request that your agent report to another person so that they’re held accountable for any transactions they make on your behalf.
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